Posts Tagged ‘wedding’
I have my second official weigh-in tomorrow since I have “re-booted” my blog. Sadly, I do not expect to meet my goal of three pounds lost. To be quite honest, I do not expect to lose anything at all.
It’s not because I’ve lifted weights so hard that I’ve added tons of muscle.
No, it’s because that when I am often in a good mood, I choose to celebrate with food. I have truly seldom been as happy as I am right now. I’m about to marry the woman I love. I’m about to start a new life with her. I’m about to leave the country for seven days on a wonderful honeymoon to Antigua.
And yes, rather than say, “You know what, I have the most amazing life, and the only thing that would make it better would be to eat healthy so I can get healthier and therefore live longer,” my mind says, “Hey, you’re happy, You deserve food!”
The next thing I know, I’m at Barnes and Noble with a stack of books to read (that’s okay) and a Pumpkin Spice Bundt Cake and a Pumpkin Spice Frappucino with whipped cream (at least I got the small, right?). Or was it the tall? I hate Starbucks sizing.
Another fake reason to celebrate? The weather has been beautiful, (if a bit warm), and I just hope it stays this beautiful for the next two weeks. This isn’t the best picture (taken on my cell phone) but that’s what half of the sky looked like last night. The other half was pink and purple. I HOPE that we have a pretty night on October 8th.
Oh well. I’m probably going to weigh 335ish tomorrow. I’ve been exercising, but my clothes fit EXACTLY the same and I’m pretty sure the scale will not be kind. Oh well again. I have nothing to blame but myself and my food choices, and I’m not going to blame it on anything else. (There have been PLENTY of times I think I could legitimately blame it on something else, like water gain, et cetera, but this is NOT one of those times.) I’m still going to try and lose weight before the wedding, and I am committing to weighing less on January 1st than I do right now.
I am still doing Couch to 5K, and I must admit, I’m starting to struggle with it. The last two runs have been HARD. Brandon at A Healthy Dad gave the advice of repeating a week, if need be. Tina and I both had a bit of a tough time with Week Two. Not sure why, but it frankly kicked my butt. The entire time I was doing it yesterday, I kept thinking, “I want to quit, but I’m not going to.” I was going slower and slower, and by the end, I’m not sure my jog was much more than a slightly faster walk.
This is the picture we took afterward. My hair is kind of jacked up because… well, two reasons. One, I’m balding and I just don’t have good hair. And two, I’m waiting ’til about ten days before the wedding to get a haircut, because I don’t want my hair too long for the wedding or too short. That’s what’s giving me the Bozo-esque Monk Ring.
As for the C25K caption, it’s been amazingly hot here. Thursday it got to over 100 degrees in some parts of Kentucky. This isn’t fall. Today actually felt a bit more like fall. It was still warm, but it’s a bit more like autumn now than not.
In other news, I had a pretty neat idea for a wedding craft. I’m just not crafty, so this one is a big deal, just because it came from my craft-deficient brain.
I like wine bottles. I actually think I like wine bottles more than wine. I also like light. That’s probably why I like Vegas. Anything that lights up fascinates me.
We’re going to have a bar at the wedding. We’re also getting married in a cave (not actually IN a cave, but at the mouth of a cave under a natural cave roof), and it’s going to be night, so light won’t be the greatest. It’ll be pretty well-lit, we’re not getting married in the dark, but we’re also happy to have any artificial sources of light down there we can find.
It occurred to me that Christmas lights in empty wine bottles sitting on the bar would look really neat. I just didn’t like the fact that the cord would have to come out of the top. That’s when it occurred to me that I could use a diamond drill bit and drill a hole in the back of the bottle, feed Christmas lights into it, and that could sit on our bar as decoration.
And that’s what I did! I made this last night, it was surprisingly easy, and I’m really pleased with how it turned out. I’m going to have four of these sitting on our bar.
We’re heading to the gym here very shortly. I’ll post tomorrow (albeit probably pretty late, because I work ’til nine p.m. tomorrow night), but I’ll have my 2nd weigh-in, no matter how ugly it is.
Is Monday morning the start of a new week, or is Sunday the start of a new week?
I like Sunday, because it’s part of the weekend, and I love the weekends. I used to despise Monday mornings with a white-hot passion, but now that I actually like my job (even if Monday = 12 hour work day now), Mondays aren’t a big deal. Sundays are enjoyable, because they aren’t spent dreading the next horrible work day.
I’ve ultimately decided Monday morning is the start of a new week, and as such, I’m going to treat Mondays as my weigh-in day. Yeah, I know, I know, I said Friday last time… well, it’s Monday, ’til the next time I change it. At least I’m publicly weighing and keeping myself accountable, right?
And this week is a Fresh Start Weigh-In!
September 20, 2010
Weight – 334.0
Precious Weigh-in – 337.9
Change of -3.9 from last week
All-Time High 402.8
Total Loss – 68.8 pounds
I’m also going back to setting myself some weekly goals. I like to give myself some that are easy to accomplish and some that may require a bit of stretching.
1. Complete Week Two of Couch to 5K.
2. Drink one gallon of water on at least four days.
3. Learn the new dance steps Tina has for us for our “first” dance as a married couple. (She has the rhythm. I can spell the word rhythm. That’s about it.)
4. Work out every day for the next week.
5. Drop at least three pounds this week.
In other C25K news, I have started week two! Last night at twilight was our second run. I am already feeling some changes in my body; I think my speed is even improving. Still pain free, although after the run, I found myself thinking, “I wonder if I can do another C25K run tomorrow?” A few hours later, I found myself a tad bit sore. More than I was expecting, because I’m not truly COUCH to 5K. I’m more like Elliptical to 5K, but running is definitely different on the body. That’s okay. I’ll stick to the routine and take a day off like I’m supposed to.
In wedding news, we had our Wedding Shower yesterday. I am truly involved in all aspects of the wedding, but yesterday was definitely a day for Tina. Still, we did get a pretty good haul of various kitchen gadgetry, and it was nice spending the afternoon with people who care about us.
The wedding is only eighteen days away! Holy crap! How did it get here so fast?! As I mentioned previously, we are “choreographing” our first dance. It isn’t some crazy elaborate thing, but we don’t want to just stand up in front of our guests and sway together to a slow song for three minutes, either. We’re dancing the rumba to Michael Buble’s “Everything,” and we are putting a few little extra special moves here and there. Nothing elaborate, and we would totally be voted off first week of Dancing with the Stars, but we’re trying to make it a bit more fun for our guests (and ourselves) than just slow-dancing to one of our favorite songs. All that said, I’m not much of a dancer. I’m not afraid to dance, and I enjoy it, but I definitely suck.
Tina’s trying to teach me, and she has helped. However, I have realized one thing that has helped me a lot. During one session, it kind of occurred to me that I was having SO much trouble with this while doing a taekwondo form is doable for me. I started viewing our choreographed steps like that, and I’m improving and enjoying it a lot more. I jokingly mentioned to Tina that if I treat it like a form, I may end up yelling at some point during the dance and ending it with a loud, “Thank you, ma’am!” She suggested I not do that at our wedding. I promised to try.
We still have tons to do on all wedding fronts, and since we’re crafty people, we’re doing a lot of it ourselves, which means there is still tons more to do. Some easy, some not so easy, but it’s all saving us money (and is uniquely us), so we’re definitely including it in the ceremony.
One thing that I am doing is printing off our favorite quotes from t.v. shows and movies to set at each place setting. The quotes range from “The Simpsons” (me) to “Glee” (us) to “Steel Magnolias” (us) and “Gilmore Girls” (Tina) and even more obscure shows, but they are all things that make us laugh, and we’re hoping our guests will see them, perhaps chuckle, and realize they are at the wedding of two dorks who love each other very much. I’ll make sure some quotes are included in the photos I’ll definitely post after we return from our honeymoon.
So, today is the start of a brand new week. I hope to post at least twice more this week – not entirely sure what about yet, but we’ll see when it happens. What great plans do you have for this week?
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This blog has existed in a few different incarnations. The first time I did a blog, I literally wrote it out in html. It didn’t allow for comments or any type of interaction at all. I got tired of that blog REAL quick. (This was about three years ago, and it was just about whatever was going on in my life.)
Last year, I had a blog on Blogspot. I already owned my own domain, stellarpath.net, for my webpage, but I had no idea how to put a blog on it because my web host was just not helpful. I knew I wanted to make a blog, so I created stellarpath.blogspot.com, and I used that for a few months.
I finally learned that I could put a blog on my domain, and stellarpath.net became my main blog. I used it for roughly a year, but as time went, I found my interest waning. It wasn’t that blogging no longer interested me. Frankly, I love it. It’s practice for writing, it’s a way to find friends with common interests, and it’s a level of accountability for weight loss that you just can’t get too many places. A few factors, however, led to the slow decline in my posting frequency.
Number one – my host company sucked. They sucked hard. It was frequently down, and I would often have to wait DAYS to submit a post because of some technical glitch. My contract with them was ending in October 2010, and in early September 2010, I changed to a more reliable host recommended by a tech-savvy friend (and it turned out to be cheaper, too), and that is what has led to this new incarnation of my blog. (More on that in a moment.)
Number two – I was depressed. I don’t think it was true clinical depression, but one set of circumstances in my life had me in a MAJOR funk. I had (and still have) a wonderful fiance. Her name is Tina, and she is truly the best thing that has ever happened to me. We are getting married on October 8th of this year (just a few weeks away!), and I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with my best friend.
For the past year, we’ve been planning a wedding and starting our lives together. This should be the greatest time of my life. Why on Earth have I been so down in the dumps?
Put simply, I had the shittiest job EVER. (Pardon my language.) One day, I reached my breaking point. I had a crappy salary, I was on call essentially 24/7 (for a job that should not require anyone be on call – who in the field of Education is ever on call 24/7?!), and I had an assistant who was openly hostile toward me and a boss who would not even let me do anything about it. I was done; I walked in on Monday, quit, and walked out. I “technically” gave two weeks notice, but when I explained my situation to the deputy director about why I needed to leave, they allowed me to use my vacation hours as my two weeks notice. The relief I felt as I walked out that door for the last time was AMAZING.
I had very recently been offered a part-time job by Western Kentucky University, my alma mater, that was going to provide about 2/3rds of the full-time salary I had been making. That was what ultimately led to the decision to leave. I know I could find a part-time job to make up the difference, so I could still pay my bills. But God truly had something amazing in store for me, because on Thursday of that week, I was offered a full-time job with benefits at WKU. Best yet, I’m working for a professor that I’ve worked with before, and she is amazing. I am the Coordinator for the Center of Literacy at WKU, and I can only see this position growing more and more amazing as time passes. I truly plan to make this my career. (Oh, and another perk? 18 hours of free tuition every year! I will even be able to get my doctorate, virtually for free!)
Okay, so now that I am working in a job that I love and finally feel like I am making a difference, I’m finding that I don’t dread going to work. I’m getting less sleep, but my body doesn’t need more sleep. I am finding joy in more places now than ever before. I didn’t realize how badly one aspect of my life could taint the other amazing components of my life. But I’m out, things are great, and I decided to turn back to my blog and make it the awesome webpage I always wanted it to be.
I did find myself posting less and less frequently. A big part of it was the depression over my job, because when I was home after work, I just wanted to veg out and do nothing. Going to the gym was a freaking obstacle; I just didn’t have the energy to blog. But you know what? I do now, and I have great plans for this blog. The past year is gone, and while I wrote some great posts (I think so, anyway) over the past year, it was going to be a huge pain in the butt to migrate everything over, so I’m just calling it a fresh start and beginning here anew, on September 10, 2010, with a fresh slate.
I’m actually going to be running several blogs, but this is my main blog. I have a lot of things I want to blog about, but I don’t want to overwhelm my main weight loss blog with everything that I know some of you won’t be interested in.
My plans for this main blog? I’m still not sure how often I’ll post, but I plan to post at least every few days. One thing I will be doing, but in a different way – Weigh-ins. I’m not going to do weekly weigh-ins. Instead, every time I post, I will share what my weight was that day. I’m not someone who can go a week without getting on a scale; I have an addiction. Plus, when I weigh weekly, I would find myself skimping on the day before weigh-in day to make the scale read less. To me, that’s a stupid behavior. But if I weigh in daily, then day-to-day fluctuations don’t freak me out. I know that if I’m up a bit today, it’s okay, because in a day or two, I’ll be back where I should. So every post will, in essence, be a weigh-in post. I’ll definitely have celebratory weight posts, too, because every five pounds is going to be a goal.
I’ll also post recipes, weight loss and exercise tips, and a few other random things about my weight loss journey. It will basically be what my blog was before.
Oh, and one thing I’m very excited about – I’ve begun training to be a personal trainer! You’ll definitely get to follow me on that journey, too. I’ll be starting that in mid-October, when I’m back from my honeymoon in Antigua!
And as I mentioned, I will have other blogs as well. To give you a quick rundown:
1. Food Blog – I plan to blog what I eat daily (or at least near daily) with some pictures of my food.
2. The Rejection Journal – I love to write, and I want to be a published fiction writer. Right now, I am focusing on short stories. This blog won’t be updated as often, but it will be where I keep track of what I’m writing, what I’ve submitted, and my rejection (and hopefully acceptance) notes. Why the title? There is a writer’s adage – “If you haven’t received rejection letters, then you haven’t been writing.” I don’t necessarily know that I’ll post works of fiction here, but I may. We’ll see.
3. Mason’s Miscellaneous – I love pictures. I love both pictures I have taken, I love pictures others have taken, and I love just random pictures I find on the internet. I’ll post to this one whenever I find or take a picture that I want to share. And because the title is so broad, if I find something else I want to share that doesn’t relate to weight loss (say a cool webpage or funny video), this is where it will end up. Oh, and as for why the name Mason – well, I’m a huge dork, so you’ll just have to go check it out and see. (And you will then receive direct verification that I am, in fact, a huge dork. If you didn’t already know. You probably did.)
4. Ice Blog – Yes, I plan to bring Ice Blog back and keep it updated. I know where the story is going, and I want to get it all out there on paper. Er, the web.
I hope to get these other blogs going this weekend.
I may create other webpages here at Stellar Path at well, and I’ll share those as they are created. Right now, I do have a webpage posted from October 2001 called Project: October, which was a little psychological experiment I conducted on myself in regards to horror movies.
So yeah, I’m happy to be back. I’m happy to be happy. And while I’m not where I thought I would be weight-wise when I got married, I know that I’ll keep chiseling away at my weight until I am where I want to be.